Which choice is better?

If you are to chose between two friends; one who is physically strong and independent minded, and another who is emotionally strong and is dependent on you, whom would you choose? On the one hand you need the strength and power in life to accomplish your goals, but on the other hand you need someone who can be empathetic toward your struggles. The choice is hard to make, it's a choice between your intelligence and your heart. No matter what choice you make, stick to it with confidence because its not about what you choose in life, but its about how you handle what you choose. It's not about son or daughter who is born in your family, its about what you do to help your child acheieve his/her uniqueness. Some beleive that the sons are independent minded and daughters love their parents more than the sons and others think that sons are better as they move family lineage forward. We cannot control what people think but we can change ourselves. If a parent love his/her child genuinly and provide him/her experiences he/she deserves, will the relationship not be fulfilling? Think about it....